One of the most important family values there is, is not interfering with the private and legal lives of others. If you
believe that abortion before the third trimester of pregnancy, or that same-sex marriage
at any time, are both sinful acts, then that should be the standard for the decisions you make for yourself. Each of us is responsible for both the decisions we make
and the consequences. I cannot think of a religious organization that would
suggest otherwise.
If a woman believes it is her
responsibility to decide on the necessity of an abortion before the third trimester
of her pregnancy, then she is legally allowed to accept that responsibility. If
you believe it is your responsibility to decide whether or not to enter into a
same-sex marriage, then you are legally allowed to make that decision. As already stated, each of
us is responsible for both the decisions we make and the consequences.
What if civil law allows others to
act contrary to your religious beliefs? In your civic interactions with others, respect the rights and privacy of others by respecting the law. In
your private life and decisions, follow your beliefs. The U.S. Constitution protects your
personal right to do just that, but guarantees the exact same right of privacy for your neighbor, as well. Living
peacefully with both yourself and those who are different, demonstrates the
highest of family values, unconditional love and respect.
Jesus taught that when we have love in our hearts we experience God in our lives and all is well.
Jesus taught that when we have love in our hearts we experience God in our lives and all is well.
